Тонкое искусство пофигизма
Chapter 5
ThereIsNo“How”
Alotofpeoplemighthearallofthisandthensaysomethinglike,“Okay,buthow?IgetthatmyvaluessuckandthatIavoidresponsibilityforallofmyproblemsandthatI’manentitledlittleshitwhothinkstheworldshouldrevolvearoundmeandeveryinconvenienceIexperience—buthowdoIchange?”
AndtothisIsay,inmybestYodaimpersonation:“Do,ordonot;thereisno‘how.’”
Youarealreadychoosing,ineverymomentofeveryday,whattogiveafuckabout,sochangeisassimpleaschoosingtogiveafuckaboutsomethingelse.
Itreallyisthatsimple.It’sjustnoteasy.
It’snoteasybecauseyou’regoingtofeellikealoser,afraud,adumbassatfirst.You’regoingtobenervous.You’regoingtofreakout.Youmaygetpissedoffatyourwifeoryourfriendsoryourfatherintheprocess.Theseareallsideeffectsofchangingyourvalues,ofchangingthefucksyou’regiving.Buttheyareinevitable.
It’ssimplebutreally,reallyhard.
Let’slookatsomeofthesesideeffects.You’regoingtofeeluncertain;Iguaranteeit.“ShouldIreallygivethisup?Isthistherightthingtodo?”Givingupavalueyou’vedependedonforyearsisgoingtofeeldisorienting,asifyoudon’treallyknowrightfromwronganymore.Thisishard,butit’snormal.
Next,you’llfeellikeafailure
