Тонкое искусство пофигизма
Chapter 6
Thetruthis,hewouldratherfuckuphisrelationshipwithhissisterthanconsiderthathemightbewrong—eventhoughthelattercouldhelphimtogrowoutoftheinsecuritiesthatmadehimwronginthefirstplace.
Itrytolivewithfewrules,butonethatI’veadoptedovertheyearsisthis:ifit’sdowntomebeingscrewedup,oreverybodyelsebeingscrewedup,itisfar,far,farmorelikelythatI’mtheonewho’sscrewedup.Ihavelearnedthisfromexperience.IhavebeentheassholeactingoutbasedonmyowninsecuritiesandflawedcertaintiesmoretimesthanIcancount.It’snotpretty.
That’snottosaytherearen’tcertainwaysinwhichmostpeoplearescrewedup.Andthat’snottosaythattherearen’ttimeswhenyou’llbemorerightthanmostotherpeople.
That’ssimplyreality:ifitfeelslikeit’syouversustheworld,chancesareit’sreallyjustyouversusyourself.
