Тонкое искусство пофигизма
Chapter 1
Painisaninextricablethreadinthefabricoflife,andtotearitoutisnotonlyimpossible,butdestructive:attemptingtotearitoutunravelseverythingelsewithit.Totrytoavoidpainistogivetoomanyfucksaboutpain.Incontrast,ifyou’reabletonotgiveafuckaboutthepain,youbecomeunstoppable.
Inmylife,Ihavegivenafuckaboutmanythings.Ihavealsonotgivenafuckaboutmanythings.Andliketheroadnottaken,itwasthefucksnotgiventhatmadeallthedifference.
Chancesareyouknowsomebodyinyourlifewho,atonetimeoranother,didnotgiveafuckandthenwentontoaccomplishamazingfeats.Perhapstherewasatimeinyourownlifewhenyousimplydidnotgiveafuckandexcelledtosomeextraordinaryheight.Formyself,quittingmydayjobinfinanceafteronlysixweekstostartanInternetbusinessranksprettyhighupthereinmyown“didn’tgiveafuck”halloffame.SamewithdecidingtosellmostofmypossessionsandmovetoSouthAmerica.Fucksgiven?None.Justwentanddidit.
Thesemomentsofnon-fuckeryarethemomentsthatmostdefineourlives.Themajorswitchincareers;thespontaneouschoicetodropoutofcollegeandjoinarockband;thedecisiontofinallydumpthatdeadbeatboyfriendwhomyoucaughtwearingyourpantyhoseafewtoomanytimes.
Tonotgiveafuckistostaredownlife’smostterrifyinganddifficultchallengesandstilltakeaction.
