Тонкое искусство пофигизма

           Evernoticethatsometimeswhenyoucarelessaboutsomething,youdobetteratit?Noticehowit’softenthepersonwhoistheleastinvestedinthesuccessofsomethingthatactuallyendsupachievingit?Noticehowsometimeswhenyoustopgivingafuck,everythingseemstofallintoplace?

           What’swiththat?

           What’sinterestingaboutthebackwardslawisthatit’scalled“backwards”forareason:notgivingafuckworksinreverse.Ifpursuingthepositiveisanegative,thenpursuingthenegativegeneratesthepositive.Thepainyoupursueinthegymresultsinbetterall-aroundhealthandenergy.Thefailuresinbusinessarewhatleadtoabetterunderstandingofwhat’snecessarytobesuccessful.Beingopenwithyourinsecuritiesparadoxicallymakesyoumoreconfidentandcharismaticaroundothers.Thepainofhonestconfrontationiswhatgeneratesthegreatesttrustandrespectinyourrelationships.Sufferingthroughyourfearsandanxietiesiswhatallowsyoutobuildcourageandperseverance.

           Seriously,Icouldkeepgoing,butyougetthepoint.Everythingworthwhileinlifeiswonthroughsurmountingtheassociatednegativeexperience.Anyattempttoescapethenegative,toavoiditorquashitorsilenceit,onlybackfires.Theavoidanceofsufferingisaformofsuffering.Theavoidanceofstruggleisastruggle.Thedenialoffailureisafailure.Hidingwhatisshamefulisitselfaformofshame.