Тонкое искусство пофигизма
Chapter 2
”Thenhe’dtellthehomeownertohaveanicedayandsaunterondowntothenexthouse.
Itwouldbeawesome.Andsick.Andsad.Anduplifting.Andnecessary.Afterall,thegreatesttruthsinlifeareusuallythemostunpleasanttohear.
DisappointmentPandawouldbetheherothatnoneofuswouldwantbutallofuswouldneed.He’dbetheproverbialvegetablestoourmentaldietofjunkfood.He’dmakeourlivesbetterdespitemakingusfeelworse.He’dmakeusstrongerbytearingusdown,brightenourfuturebyshowingusthedarkness.Listeningtohimwouldbelikewatchingamoviewheretheherodiesintheend:youloveitevenmoredespitemakingyoufeelhorrible,becauseitfeelsreal.
Sowhilewe’rehere,allowmetoputonmyDisappointmentPandamaskanddropanotherunpleasanttruthonyou:
Wesufferforthesimplereasonthatsufferingisbiologicallyuseful.Itisnature’spreferredagentforinspiringchange.Wehaveevolvedtoalwayslivewithacertaindegreeofdissatisfactionandinsecurity,becauseit’sthemildlydissatisfiedandinsecurecreaturethat’sgoingtodothemostworktoinnovateandsurvive.Wearewiredtobecomedissatisfiedwithwhateverwehaveandsatisfiedbyonlywhatwedonothave.Thisconstantdissatisfactionhaskeptourspeciesfightingandstriving,buildingandconquering.Sono—ourownpainandmiseryaren’tabugofhumanevolution;they’reafeature.
Pain,inallofitsforms,isourbody’smosteffectivemeansofspurringaction.
