Размышления
Book 11
Evenifthereareotherpeoplearound.
Keeptheseninepointsinmind,likegiftsfromthenineMuses,andstartbecomingahumanbeing.Nowandfortherestofyourlife.
Andalongwithnotgettingangryatothers,trynottopandereither.Bothareformsofselfishness;bothofthemwilldoyouharm.Whenyoustarttoloseyourtemper,remember:There’snothingmanlyaboutrage.It’scourtesyandkindnessthatdefineahumanbeing—andaman.That’swhopossessesstrengthandnervesandguts,nottheangrywhiners.Toreactlikethatbringsyouclosertoimpassivity—andsotostrength.Painistheoppositeofstrength,andsoisanger.Botharethingswesufferfrom,andyieldto.
...andonemorethought,fromApollo:
x.Thattoexpectbadpeoplenottoinjureothersiscrazy.It’stoasktheimpossible.Andtoletthembehavelikethattootherpeoplebutexpectthemtoexemptyouisarrogant—theactofatyrant.
19.Fourhabitsofthoughttowatchfor,anderasefromyourmindwhenyoucatchthem.Tellyourself:
•Thisthoughtisunnecessary.
•Thisoneisdestructivetothepeoplearoundyou.
•Thiswouldn’tbewhatyoureallythink(tosaywhatyoudon’tthink—thedefinitionofabsurdity).
Andthefourthreasonforself-reproach:thatthemoredivinepartofyouhasbeenbeatenandsubduedbythedegradedmortalpart—thebodyanditsstupidself-indulgence.